As you all know, I am alllllll about self-love! Self-love is the key to a fulfilling life during our short time on this earth. BUTTTTTT… when I hear people say, “I am not responsible for your happiness” in the context of a relationship, I call BS. Sure, I get it; one cannot enter into a relationship a “hot mess” and expect anotherContinue reading “I Am Not Responsible For Your Happiness: Or, Am I?”
Category Archives: Relationships
Are You The Best Version Of Yourself?
Like everyone else, I get sucked into the videos and the blog posts that give you the laundry list of reasons why he/she “is not the one”. I have considered drafting a list of red flags a time or two, and maybe in the past, I have alluded to some characteristics that should cause oneContinue reading “Are You The Best Version Of Yourself?”
Monday Motivation: I Hope You Have A Wonderful Week
In my quest to live my best life, I often seek inspiration and motivation from others. This quest is most prevalent when I find myself veering from the path that is meant for me. A healthy dose of motivation goes a long way in helping me to get on solid footing again. Often, when IContinue reading “Monday Motivation: I Hope You Have A Wonderful Week”
3 Relationship Podcast Episodes Worth Listening To
It’s fall! Not only do you want to snuggle up with a good book during this time of the year, you also want to snuggle and feel the warmth and closeness of another human being in your life. I have been snuggling with some great podcast episodes. Today I want to share three specific podcastContinue reading “3 Relationship Podcast Episodes Worth Listening To”
Is “Don’t Mess This Up” Relationship Advice We Should Be Giving?
How many times has someone told you, “don’t mess this up”? have you told someone, “don’t mess this up”? has someone told someone you are dating, “don’t mess this up”? As the giver of such advice, my intentions were always good. I believed that the recipient was failing to see how incredible her mate wasContinue reading “Is “Don’t Mess This Up” Relationship Advice We Should Be Giving?”
Who Am I?: When Is The Last Time You Asked Yourself That Question
As you know, October 15, 2020, is my self-love anniversary! So, I have naturally been talking about self-love a lot lately. You know how it is when you start a new relationship with someone. You walk around all giddy and happy and drive your friends crazy, talking about how wonderful and perfect that person is.Continue reading “Who Am I?: When Is The Last Time You Asked Yourself That Question”
Mindset Shift: 4 Things That Will Lead to One’s Peace and Happiness In Life
2020 has been life-altering for many, me included! Initially, I was completely blindsided by the seriousness of COVID-19. In fact, I was traveling home from Spain with my middle daughter when COVID-19 became very real to me. I remember making my way through NY customs, feeling a little panicked as I looked around and sawContinue reading “Mindset Shift: 4 Things That Will Lead to One’s Peace and Happiness In Life”
Vulnerability Has Value: I’m Still A Believer
Somehow this has turned into TED TALK Tuesday! This was not my intention, but every time I focus on writing for Tuesday’s, I think of a TED TALK that has resonated with me. Vulnerability sounds like truth and feels like courage. Truth and courage aren’t always comfortable, but they’re never weakness. Brene’ brown If youContinue reading “Vulnerability Has Value: I’m Still A Believer”
Are You In Love With Yourself?
When is the last time you have said, “I Love You” to yourself and truly meant it? It is so odd to me how I sought love from others for so many years without ever stopping to think about whether I loved myself. I think about all of the time I spent with friends talkingContinue reading “Are You In Love With Yourself?”
Homeownership Blues
I come from a family that prides itself on homeownership. Purchasing a home in our family was a sign that you had a good head on your shoulders, your parents taught you right! Even the family members who migrated to the North for work saved money and often proudly purchased homes “down south”. My motherContinue reading “Homeownership Blues”