The Shift

I found myself in a constant state of anger, always ready for war. Taking the easy way out, I blamed my raging hormones and accepted that this was something I had to endure and manage through medication, meditation, and mindfulness. Unable to shake the feeling of defeat at the thought of taking medication, I immersed... Continue Reading →


Please Don’t Build that Wall

I had the wonderful opportunity to spend my 47th Birthday in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico. I will admit that prior to the trip, I was one of those arrogant Americans that swore to never step foot in Mexico. "Too much violence" is what I said anytime anyone asked had I ever visited Mexico. When deciding... Continue Reading →

Is That What You Call Cheating?

I got a lot of great feedback from my post, Monogamy…is that even possible?. The feedback, and reflection on my personal journey, led to another question. What is cheating? I think there is a huge disparity in how men and women define cheating. Or is it just a disparity in how cheaters vs. non-cheaters define... Continue Reading →

Southerners and Snow

The thought of snow out here in our "neck of the woods" throws us into a "tizzy". It is quite different from my experience growing up in New York where the city didn't stop even if there was a foot of snow on the ground. A foot of snow on the ground around here would... Continue Reading →

My 2018 “Bucket List”

Happy New Year! In 10 days I will be celebrating my birthday! I am happy to say that I have had some pretty wonderful experiences in my life!!! With that being said, there are so many other things I would love to experience. Since I shared my friends bucket list in “The Big Panty Crew”... Continue Reading →

My Families “Bucket List”

As I shared in “The Big Panty Crew” Bucket List, I love to read people's bucket list. So, since I decided to share my friend's bucket list, I definitely wanted to share my families. So, here we go☺️☺️: My mother's bucket list: Own a small condo in NYC a moving company to help me move some... Continue Reading →

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