I Still LOVE to Read, Do You?

I love to read! I have books scattered throughout my house, as well as, downloaded on my iPad. Just like my music choices, I do not limit myself to one genre when I am devouring words on a page. My mood dictates what I read, and, whether or not I want to read the old fashioned […]

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Prelude to a Kiss II (The Flowers)

“Is there something you want to tell me?” She asked as I walked into the building. Puzzled, I stared at my assistant as she led me upstairs to my office where three beautiful flower arrangements sat on my desk. With a huge smile glued on my face, I immediately asked, “Are these for me?” To […]

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Prelude to a Kiss I (Songs That Make My Heart Sing)

I thought I would get you in the mood for Prelude to a Kiss II by sharing a few songs that are in constant circulation on my playlist lately. Make sure you download and listen (you may even want to add them to your playlist) so that you can be in the right “mind space” […]

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I Miss You All

Hi guys! So many positive things have been going on in my life over the past several weeks. I am not sure where I want to begin. I guess tonight I will start by sharing Season 2 Episode 1 of Sistanomics (VLOG about the life and adventures of 3 African-American Women). Recording this VLOG with my […]

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Pro-Choice and Proud

This is my body! The fact that one attempts to use the government to come in and dictate what I do with it makes me mad as hell. You had absolutely nothing to do with my creation, so, why would you believe that you should be given the awesome privilege of telling me what to […]

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I Want a Behind the Scenes Man

Of course, I do not know all of the factors that go into a man determining whether or not he is attracted to a woman. As women we all have experienced that man staring at us like we are a piece of pork chop on a plate. Hell, the beauty and clothing industry makes “gazillion’s” […]

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Help! My man is a “chick magnet”!

I was chatting with a friend recently and this scenario came up. Because it provoked some thought and self-reflection for me I wanted to bring the scenario to you. So, here you go… You walk into an event with your man who happens to be blessed with “chick magnet” genes. Translation… your man is “FINE”! […]

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You Know You Are Approaching Fifty When…

The other day my friend asked me, “do you realize we graduated from high school thirty years ago?” I. ALMOST. PASSED. OUT! Thirty years??? Where has all of the time gone? Of course, we would love to be able to turn back the hands of time, and, tweak a few things, but, the more we […]

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Meghan Markle Hit the Jackpot

Just like every other woman on the planet, I was tuned in for the royal wedding. Most women (and maybe even some men) love a storybook romance. Mesmerized by the beauty and splendor of the union between this beautiful couple, many of us focused in on every expression shared between them, trying to confirm that […]

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Cause I’m A Woman

The twenty something Tonza (as she smiles gleefully): The forty something Tonza (as I give myself the side eye): WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD I TAKE ALL OF THAT ON? Anyone remember the saying, “be careful what you wish for”? It seems to be playing like a broken record in my head as I think […]

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