Why We Settle

I have really missed blogging over the past couple of weeks, but it has been a wonderful time of deep reflection and transition for me. So, I am at the half way point to being eligible to file for my divorce.  In North Carolina, a person must be separated for one year before they can […]

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Forest For The Trees

BY TAKIYA LEWIS I have had my share of heartbreak.  Most of my heartbreak came from one man.  Just one.  And when I say that he broke my heart, that’s what I mean.  He is the only man that I can say that I have ever really loved.  The end of that relationship almost felt […]

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The Confrontation

He would never admit that he was wrong and if by chance he decided to admit that he was wrong he would blame me for his behavior.  That is how it had been throughout our relationship.  I wouldn’t have done that if you hadn’t … Now, don’t get me wrong,  I gave him some good […]

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