What Tonza Wants

I recently read an interesting article about what men in my age group are attracted to. I thought this article did a wonderful job of providing some insight into the mind of a mature man seeking companionship. It also led to some introspection on my part…What do I want? After careful consideration, while blasting Ella […]

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Women/Young Ladies that Inspire Me

Hi everyone!! I really have missed blogging over the past couple of weeks.  Court demands, and, other projects have been consuming so much of  my time. Anyway, I have decided to dedicate my next couple of blog posts to sharing more information about me, Tonza D. Ruffin :-). To kick this project off, here are three […]

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No Hoping Allowed

My friends are the dating gurus, or at least they think they are.  More importantly, they think I am absolutely clueless when it comes to dating. I will admit I am partially to blame.  Sometimes I enjoy playing  “clueless” with folks.  It makes them relax and the expressions on peoples faces when I go into […]

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